NoMarriage.com and Heterosexism
Posted in Gay Interest, Web/Tech on November 26th, 2003 by Chip GibbonsIn this website, NoMarriage.com, the author blames women for the sorry state of marriage and society, while ignoring the fact that society and its laws was for the most part created by men who were in love with or married to women.
The problem lies in dynamics of heterosexual relationships, which are mysticized and romanticized, causing both men and women to become divorced from reality. Heterosexism requires that both men and women put themselves in one of two boxes; heterosexist males destroy what they see as feminine in themselves and heterosexist females destroy what they see as masculine. Then they spend the rest of their lives looking for the half that was “taken away” and resenting the other sex for having taken it away. This causes many heterosexuals to spend their entire lives on a seek and destroy mission. It is this dynamic that drives much of the course of human events.
Those who engage in self-destruction, seek to destroy the self in others.
The author includes his own opinions on marriage and women as well as links to articles by Arthur Schopenhauer and an article about Friedrich Nietzsche and his attitudes about women.